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What Should You Know About Penis Pumps?

Penis pumps can be intimidating if you’ve never thought about picking one up before. Contrary to popular belief, they are not tools for increasing the length or girth of your penis. They are simply sexual aids, used to obtain a temporarily harder erection when used properly.

best-penis-pumpsTo help allay some of the inevitable apprehension that comes with purchasing a penis pump, thanks to, we’ve collected everything you could possibly need to know to help you choose the perfect pump for you.

  1. Not all pumps are created equal. This is a definite case of ‘you get what you pay for.’ Low cost pumps often don’t have the safety equipment needed to make sure you don’t permanently damage your penis. They are also frequently made from low-quality materials that don’t hold up as well under pressure.
  2. There are 3 types of penis pumps. Pumps fall under three categories: air, water, and hybrid. Air assisted pumps are often the cheapest option. It is easy to damage the penis with this style of pump because there is nothing to regulate the vacuum being created inside the tube. The best hydro penis pumps are filled with water before use, making them safer. The vacuum is distributed more evenly, and there is no chance of over-pressurizing the tube. Hybrid pumps can be used with air or water.
  3. Pumps are often prescribed by doctors. The use of vacuum assisted devices is often needed for patients who suffer from erectile dysfunction or other conditions that may affect blood flow, such as diabetes or obesity. It can even be used to assist patients who have difficulty obtaining an erection due to mental issues such as anxiety or depression.
  4. Best pumps work by increasing blood flow. The strength and hardness of an erection is directly related to the amount of blood in the penis. A pump works by using a gentle vacuum to increase the amount of blood being drawn into the penis.
  5. Pumps will not increase your penis size permanently. The vacuum inside the pump may create a temporary increase, but that is only due to the extra blood being drawn into the penis. The only way to permanently increase the size of your penis is to use stretching devices over the course of months.
  6. Do not buy a pump without a vacuum gauge and emergency release valve. The vacuum gauge allows you to see how much of a vacuum is being created in the tube. Most gauges will come marked with a safe pressure range. Anything more than that and you risk damaging your penis. The emergency release valve is important because it allows you to release the entire vacuum at once, in the event that you begin experiencing pain or extreme discomfort.
  7. Do not over-pump. You may think that you can create the most extreme erection possible by continuing to pump for an extended period of time. You couldn’t be more wrong. Instead, you will find that your penis will turn an unpleasant shade of purple like a giant hickey, and will be soft and spongy rather than hard. In extreme cases, this could even require a trip to the emergency room, due to a rupture in the penile artery or the blood vessels within the penis.
  8. Results will vary. Penis pumps work well in theory but like other medical treatments designed to help with erectile dysfunction, it may not work as well for you as it might for another patient. It is impossible to see how well a pump will work for you until you try it.
  9. Do your Research. Like many other male enhancement products, there are so many penis pumps on the market that it can be difficult to choose just one. Do your research, and spend some time on forums or sites that allow users to post their reviews of male enhancement products.


A hight quality penis pump can be a great tool to help you obtain harder erections, or just to augment your sex life. Don’t buy the first pump that pops up on your screen though, and don’t buy the cheapest one available, you will just end up disappointed. Adding a vacuum gadget to your bag of tricks can be a fantastic way to help you enjoy yourself in the bedroom. Just make sure you follow the instructions and whatever you do, don’t over-pump. No one wants to end up in the ER because of their sexual escapades, after all.

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Does Penis Size Really Count?

Most men are concerned with the size of their penis at some point or other. The media and pornography industry make it look like everyone has a gigantic penis that most men would find difficulty walking around with and this is far from a realistic portrayal of the average penis.

small-penisIs my penis too small?

The shortest penis on record was a medically diagnosed micropenis which was 0.39 inches (1 cm). The longest penis on record was 13.5 inches (34 cm) long and 6.25 inches (16 cm) wide. Medical factors like hormonal imbalance during puberty, medical conditions, and other factors can contribute to the overall length and girth of men’s penises in addition to genetic factors.

The average woman’s vagina elongates to approximately 4 inches when aroused from its usual 3 inch state. This means that the majority of men on the planet, with the exception of very few, do not have penises too small to get the job done. Basically, any penis the size of your ring finger is easily adequate enough for sexual intercourse with either sex. If your penis is less than 3-4 inches, fabulous sex is still possible.

Sex with a Small Penis

The first thing to do is stop worrying about it. Most women don’t care about penis size as much as men do. Yoga or relaxation prior to sex can help relieve anxiety which can cause your penis to retract into your body and shorten your penis’ length. Stimulate your partner thoroughly so they are really excited through whatever form of foreplay turns you both on. This will increase sensations and leave them closer to climax right from the beginning. Use ribbed condoms or condoms with less lubricant to increase sensation for your partner if you are really concerned about it.

small-penis-sexMany position choices can make all the difference in the world for penetration with a smaller penis and can leave you feeling that you are a stud. These three are a few excellent positions for those with a smaller penis size which will leave your partner feeling fantastically full.

  • Doggie

This position when angled correctly will make every penis feel much larger than it is. Your partner should be on their hands and knees with their back arched and their thighs drawn together. A variation on this called the antelope would be basically the same positioning but with your partners knees on the floor and their abdomen resting against the bed, couch, chair, or anywhere else you can dream of.


  • The Snake

Your partner lies face down on the bed in a comfortable position with their legs closed. Tuck a pillow under their hips to raise their buttocks upwards and provide more comfort and less strain on their back. Straddle your partner’s hips but remain upright on your knees. Slightly part your partner’s thighs just enough to allow entry. This position works best if you have some way to brace yourself so you don’t have to work as hard staying upright. You may choose to lean ahead slightly if this increases pleasure for you and your partner but try to keep your weight off of your partner if possible.


  • Rabbit Ears

If your partner is not flexible, this is not the position you’ll want to try as it requires your partner to be lying on their back with their knees near their ears. This position can be made more comfortable by placing a pillow under your partner’s buttocks to tip their pelvis at the proper angle without straining their back. It is helpful if you help your partner hold their legs in this position as it can cause muscle fatigue otherwise.


sex-passion Last words…

Sexual confidence and skill have more to do with sexual pleasure than your penis size. Using these types of positions, sex toys, oral sex, or manual stimulation combined with penetration will leave both you and your partner more than satisfied. Should you still be concerned, some individuals have found some success at lengthening their penis using penis enlargement devices such as penis extenders and penis pumps. Men who used these devices regularly and as instruction tended to see ¾ of an inch in additional length.

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Erection Problems or Erectile Dysfunction Difficulties

erection-problemsMost men have experienced problems getting or maintaining an erection at some point in their lives.

Many factors can contribute to these issues and it is important to always see your doctor to ensure there is not an underlying medical condition which needs addressing.

Begin by consulting with your primary health care physician and have a complete physical.

Most problems with erection can be resolved by treating underlying health problems or making a few changes to your lifestyle.

Depression, thyroid issues, high blood pressure, diabetes, hormone levels, or medications you are taking may be the cause of your erectile dysfunction.

If there is no underlying health condition and you’ve received a clean bill of health, issues in your relationship may also contribute to problems achieving or maintaining an erection. relationship-problemsIf you and your partner no longer care for each other, are not attracted to each other, fight often, communicate poorly, or are bored, these factors can contribute to erection problems.

Open dialogue with your partner and talk about any issues you feel you are having, seek couples counselling, spice up your sex life through play and new activities together, or do other things to work on your relationship.

If your relationship isn’t the issue either, cut down on smoking or quit, reduce or eliminate alcohol or drug use, exercise daily and eat a healthy diet, get plenty of rest and make sure you eliminating stress or are using relaxation techniques. All or any of these factors may cause men to have erection issues. Sometimes the answer is as simple as adding a bit of exercise and eating better. If your body is stressed and tired from your lifestyle, there’s a good chance you will encounter erection problems at some point.

ask-a-doctorIf none of these situations applies or has been cleared as being the issue, it may be time to consult your physician. Your doctor will give you a thorough examination and discuss your lifestyle as well as the medications you are taking. The examination will involve checking your penis, scrotum, and prostate to ensure that there is no inflammation, irregularities, or blockages which could be causing your erection issues such as a swollen prostate.

The solution:

penis-pumpsSome men have found improvement in their erectile dysfunction with the use of penis pumps. This is a good option for those who are unable to take prescription or natural supplement options or who have not found improvement using these methods. A penis pump can be used by most men except those who suffer from bleeding issues or take blood thinners, those with a spinal cord injury or diminished sensation in their penis, history of prolonged erection, or who have a curved penis. Most men using water assited penis pumps are able to maintain an erection for 30 minutes but the band should be removed after that amount of time to reduce the risk of injury.

What else?

Maintaining a healthy weight, eating a healthy diet, frequent exercise, adequate rest, elimination of stress, and dealing with relationship issues are often enough to prevent or resolve erection problems. Consulting with a physician can ensure no underlying health issues or medications are interfering with your ability to get or maintain an erection. Therapies for mental health issues, such as depression, anxiety, or self-esteem issues, can also help to eliminate erectile dysfunction through dealing with any issues you may be encountering or through the use of relaxation techniques.

Medications which may cause erection issues will be changed or adjusted as this may be the cause of your erectile dysfunction. If you are suffering from a hormone imbalance or other medical issue, prescription medications may also be prescribed to help you with this issue or your doctor may prescribe you a medication to increase the strength and intensity of your erection to help you achieve the functioning you previously enjoyed.

There are many ways to help eliminate and treat erectile dysfunction and there is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed to discuss this with your partner or your physician. Most men will encounter some issue with achieving or maintaining erection at some point in their lives and with all of the treatments available, there is no need to feel badly about it or just tolerate it. Talk with your partner and make an appointment to discuss your erectile dysfunction with your physician and get back to enjoying your sex life.

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G-Spot, Female Orgasm and Ejaculation

Female ejaculation is often considered to be a mystery. Some can do it, some can’t, and some don’t even know it exists! There have even been claims that the concept itself is ‘fake’ and impossible.

squirtingWhat is Female Ejaculation?

Scientifically speaking, female ejaculation, more commonly referred to as ‘squirting’ is when fluid is expelled by the paraurethral ducts during or just before an orgasm.

And what about this elusive G-Spot?

The G-Spot’s existence has also been debated. The truth is, it is real. The spot is an extremely sensitive area within the vagina’s anterior wall. Stimulating this area has been linked to female ejaculation.

Why do people claim these female attributes don’t exist?

Many people, including some doctors and health professionals, believe that there is no natural way for a female to ejaculate. They use the physical anatomy as evidence and claim that any liquid that leaves the body in this event is essentially urination.

However, other doctors, health practitioners and sex activists believe the female ejaculation is a real phenomenon, in addition to the thousands of women worldwide who claim it has happened to them.

female-orgasmHow to Achieve Female Ejaculation

It has been said that any woman can learn to ejaculate, so if you or your partner are hoping to achieve female ejaculation, there are steps you can follow to give it a try.

Firstly, you’ll need to ensure your bladder is empty. Before reaching female ejaculation, you’ll experience a feeling of needing to urinate, however it’s important that this feeling appears as the result of being aroused, rather than needed to use the bathroom.

Next, take a moment to relax somewhere comfortable. Sexual health professionals suggest that the inability to ejaculate comes from holding back when feeling the need to ‘release’.

To avoid worry, you may wish to practise in the bath. It’s unlikely urine will be released, which is a common fear, however your mind will be at ease.

g-spotTry to stimulate the g-spot – also known as the urethral sponge. It will be easy to locate within the walls of the vagina due to its texture, making it stand out from other areas. It will feel spongy and soft to the touch.

This stimulation could be achieved through the use of your, or your partner’s fingers, or a dildo or vibrator that is curved specifically for g-spot stimulation.

Combine this with clitoral stimulation, varying strokes and pressure levels. Feel free to experiment and see what feels good to you.

After some time, as the pleasure builds up, you may begin to feel as if you need to urinate. This feeling has been reported by many women as they discuss the feeling they experienced before reaching the point of female ejaculation. As you reach this point, relax and release.

Whether you manage to achieve female ejaculation or not, practising pleasure can be an amazing experience for both you and your partner so relax and enjoy your orgasms without focusing too much on the end goal. You never know – it may take you by surprise!


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