The subject of penis size is an age old debate. Some say it’s essential to have a large penis in order to achieve success in the bedroom, while others claim it’s the technique that matters.
But what about the size of sex toys?
Are these large dildos indicative of what women want?
Women often claim that penis size is irrelevant to their pleasure, but if that’s the case, why are sex toys so large? Upon visiting any online sex toy store, you’ll find yourself faced with an array of vibrators and dildos, reaching anywhere up to 15 inches!
Of course, the companies wouldn’t make products that nobody is going to purchase, so it’s clear that women are excited at the thought of a bigger penis.
In addition to the length of these toys, you may notice that dildos and vibrators are also available in a variety of widths and shapes. This leads us to the next question of which is better: a longer or wider penis? Can the curvature of the penis really make or break the level of sexual enjoyment?
Finally, we have to take the hardness and stamina of the penis into account. A dildo is always hard and will never ‘cum’ before the woman. It’s no secret that women want the same experience from a sexual partner. If you ejaculate too soon, she’ll be left frustrated and disappointed.
Am I really in competition with a dildo?
Unfortunately, that may be the case. According to research, over half of the female population in the United States admit to regularly using a dildo or vibrator. Through frequent use, a woman may become accustomed to the larger than average size and girth of the toy, meaning when she experiences sexual encounters with average, or below average men, she may feel something is lacking in the size department.
What can I do to compare to these toys? Can penis pumps help?
To put it simply, increasing the size of your dick will make it more comparable to the toys your woman knows and loves. Your problem is working out how to achieve it.
Luckily, that doesn’t have to be a difficult task, as there are a number of products available that can help to boost both the length and width of your penis, as well as improving your stamina!
Firstly, you have the option of trying penis pumps. If you’re hoping to increase the overall size of your penis, these aren’t the way to go. However, if you’re looking to heighten your libido and ensure your penis stays harder for longer, resulting in better sex and intense orgasms, they could be for you.
The other, more permanent alternative is using a penis extender to gradually alter your penis over a period of time. A penis extender is a device designed to slowly and painlessly stretch the penis to the desired size.
Remember, using a penis extender is the only way to effectively and permanently enlarge the size of your penis.Continue reading...
When having sex, pleasure is often the first thing we take into consideration, however it’s important to ensure you’re staying healthy too.
By practising safe sex, you can avoid potentially disastrous or life threatening illnesses or conditions that may be transmitted through sexual intercourse.
What are the repercussions of unprotected sex?
Unsafe sex could result in an unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease, both of which you’d presumably like to avoid.
What are my options when considering safe sex?
There are a huge number of protective measures you can take to protect yourself during sex, depending on the type of sex you’re having.
Not many people realise that foreplay may require the use of protection. For example, dental dams can be used to create a protective obstruction between you and your partner during oral sex. Using this method can drastically reduce your chances of catching diseases like herpes, hepatitis A or HIV.
While it’s important to stay safe at all times, it’s when having sexual intercourse itself that you’ll want to be most careful.
By using a regular, latex condom, you’ll experience 99% risk-free sex, protected against pregnancy and STDs. If you’re on a budget, that’s no excuse not to stay safe! Visit your local family planning clinic, where you’ll be able to pick up both free condoms and unlimited information regarding safe sex.
If you and your partner have both been tested for STDs and have both proven to be clean, you may wish to switch to hormonal birth control. These will protect against unwanted pregnancies.
Did you know that there are way to ensure your sex toy play is risk free? While your chances of contracting a sexually transmitting disease through a sex toy is significantly reduced, it isn’t completely impossible.
The ultimate way to ensure a sex toy stays STD-free is by not sharing it, however it’s understandable that you may want to share it with your partner. If you use the toy with multiple partners, try using a condom, in addition to thoroughly cleaning it with boiling water and antibacterial sex toy cleaner in between uses.
You may think some things may go without saying, but using a little common sense can help you stay safe. Take alcohol for instance. It’s a known fact that mistakes can happen while we’re drunk, so if you know you’re going to be drinking, try carrying condoms and don’t try anything too ‘out there’.
Alternatively, if you know you’re going to be in a situation that may lead to sex, try cutting back on the booze to ensure a good time with your intended partner.
Are there any other benefits to staying safe in the bedroom?
Yes! By keeping yourself safe when indulging in sexual activity, you’ll be able to focus on enjoying yourself rather than worrying about catching a disease or getting your girl pregnant.
Without the added anxiety and pressure, you’ll increase your energy, performance and pleasure, leading to a far more satisfying sexual experience.Continue reading...